Hostage at the Table
This is weird book that I would never have picked up on my own. With the benefit of hindsight I can say that assessment is partially justified but I can also say that there's some merit to reading it, even if book is extremely annoying and obviously oversimplifying everything. Are you being hostage at the table? Pass Mind’s Eye . Hard pass Bonding Cycle . It looks like this. We attach then we bond with the object of attachment, then we lose the bond so separation happens and then we need grief in order to attach again. So it's a cycle but there's a 1st attachment of sorts. Then jibber jabber. Then there’s s.t. called seven manifestations of broken bonding that kinda looks useful: Psychosomatic illness: basically our physical health and social bonding can be strongly related. Violence and aggression: so basically unattached people can end up being aggressive; similar situations can be rooted in incapability to process grief properly. Addiction: basical
